All eager to experience love with others . Is the greatest joy
to feel love . We all know how to give love , but the problem is when we
do not know how to accept it . Unable to receive love is a major cause
for much frustration that we face in dealing with others . It is the
same thing for anything that we give but seem to have trouble accepting
it as a result. If we can accept love as much as we can give , we will
complete the cycle of experiencing love with others for full happiness .
We
have been conditioned with the wrong beliefs that prevent us from
receiving love . We think that it is pride to think highly of ourselves
and expect others to think we are high . That is why we do not openly
receive compliments , adoration and all the gestures and expressions of
love by others towards us . We turned away , trying to hide from it and
respond with all sorts of ways so as not to look proud , not knowing
that we really reject the love that was given to us , rather than accept
completely.
Be aware of how you respond to others when they are
showing love to you . Do you feel uncomfortable when others look at you
and sending thoughts to make them stop staring ? When someone tries to
be good on you , if you can not accept it because it feels weird ? When
someone shows you adoration and praise , do you shy away and in any way
try to diminish their expression ? How you respond is how you treat the
love given to you whether you know it or not .
All the negative
response that we make is the reason why we experience a lack of
expression of the love of others . Each time they express love , we
respond in a way that says "do not show love , I can not accept it " and
we wonder why other people can receive all the love in the world but we
do not . We are the ones who really created all that we experienced
from others . We program the way people treat us or do not treat us . We
reinforce other people's behaviors negatively or positively .
Instead
of rejecting love from others unknowingly when they show it , accept it
. Do not just accept , but embrace . When they behave extra nice to you
, warmly receive them and show with the look in your eyes that you
accept their expression totally with appreciation . When others
compliment you , allow them to do so freely and thank them for it . Show
that you see yourself as a person who deserves all the love that can be
given to you , and that others are free to give it to you .
There
are people who are so good at receiving love . They are able to attract
all the love from others wherever they go . They act as if they are the
star and everybody likes them . They always look forward to the love
and adoration from everyone and shows in the way they behave to you .
They talk to you as if you admire them , like them , adore them , love
them and want them . You can almost feel that they tugged at your heart
and drawing love from you to them . They appear and behave as a man who
deeply loved .
Open yourself to love by allowing others rejoice
in your love . Give them the gift of your love by being loved and
attracting love from them . This is the magic key to making others love
you and can show you . Allowing them to express love to you in their
actions , words and expressions , and it was very well received . Our
world would be a much more beautiful when others are able to express
love to us and make us accept it fully , and we are also able to express
love to others and they accept it completely.
In order to
receive love from others , you must first be able to receive love from
yourself . Declare mentally " I love myself " and then let the feeling
of love is created from your heart and expand to fill your entire being .
Imagine a white light of love energy you wrap on the inside and out.
Feel love for yourself gives unconditionally and wholeheartedly . When
you step into the place with a feeling of complete self love , you will
have an unassailable form that can not be shaken by anyone .
From
self-love , you can not really love others . Allow yourself to be so
full of love for yourself and be love that spilled to the people around
you . Then you can start projecting love to others . Let the love expand
and fill the entire space where you are so that everything around you
is filled with your love . When you love others than love of themselves ,
they are able to reciprocate your love freely because you do not need
them to reciprocate the love you because you have love in yourself .
Thanks for reading & sharing Kamar Pekick
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